Now that Grey’s Fifty Shades is so famous all media are thinking about sex and sex toys. Are you curious but too embarrassed to try them out? Are you uncertain if you and your partner are good for them?
A few popular myths regarding adult toys are as follows:
Some men aren’t using adult games
Incorrect. Many reputable people using adult toy, most of them believing that they are completely appropriate. Using an adult product doesn’t make the friendship “special” or doesn’t mean something bad. It only makes you have more comfortable in your bedroom! You don’t have to communicate with your parents, manager or mom that you’re using toys because anyone asks you to.
Sex toys are merely to masturbate.
While adult toys are commonly used for masturbation, many couples, whether female or male or heterosexual or homosexual, enjoy using toys together. Such couples are typically relaxed doing different experiences together, are open-minded, and are optimistic.
If you start using a sex toy your partner will feel inadequate.
Are you nervous that this will hurt your partner’s feelings if you bring an adult toy into the bedroom? You may get an orgasm from an adult pet, but it can’t tell you how much they appreciate you or rubb your ass. An entity isn’t a substitution for a human individual. When your lover has the terror, be gentle and massage a little of his or her ego. Like for other things about partnerships, effective communication is important.
It can be physically dangerous to use sex toys.
Adult toys can actually have very positive repercussions on your sexual health.
For example, many doctors and therapists recommend adult toys for women who have trouble reaching orgasm; if you suffer from painful sex, vibrators can stimulate blood flow; all women can benefit from kegel exercisers or kegel balls to tone the pelvic floor muscles; prostate massage reduces the risk of prostate cancer, erectile dysfunction and frequent night urination. First of all, orgasms make you last longer, remove discomfort and appear younger, others claim.
When you using so many sex stuff on your girlfriend you won’t get an orgasm.
If your partner is afraid that you are going to substitute him or her with your favorite pet, assure him or her that you will still hold it special in the bedroom: consider various poses, new gadgets, gentle bondage and imagination play.
If the friendship is safe, otherwise there is no need to use a sex toy.
You are so fortunate to be in a healthy relationship. But who wouldn’t want the sharing of a new experience to make their relationship even stronger and closer? If your lover insists that you do not want to spice up your sex life with an adult toy, assure him or her that you do not need an adult toy either, you ‘d just like to try one.
You or your partner are afraid to feel happy
Pleasure is more of a birthright. Everybody deserves it, because they do. Claim your attraction, and do what you need to do. Orgasms do keep you healthier and happier after all.
Buying sex toys can be really embarrassing especially as they look gross and frightening
You are right. Now, due to the Internet, you can shop without prejudice, in the safety of your own house. Most of the adult toys make you feel uncomfortable because they are usually phallic or cheesey or so loud that you think your kids or neighbors may hear what you’re up to. Luxurious sex dolls are the reverse. You may not even know that they are adult toys of good quality since they look like jewelry. They are all so quiet and invisible that nobody understands what you’re up to.